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May 2006INSIDE THIS ISSUE. . .
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In this spring Edition of Wyden Your Horizons, we provide suggestions about how to improve results in Annual Operating Budget Campaigns, and how to find the cure for the international pandemic of the A-Flu. We are happy to provide this free email newsletter as a way to share our insights about the blessings of Fund-raising through Faith-raising, and the Joys of Generosity. This publication is provided as a resource for organizations, churches, and individuals who are raising funds for good causes. Please feel free to forward this email to family, friends, colleagues, and co-workers who may be interested in subscribing themselves. Take On-Line Fund-Raising SurveyThis year marks the 10th Anniversary of the founding of VanderWyden Consultants. We aim to equip churches to raise all of the financial resources they require, and to grow in faith as a result, in order to advance their essential programs and ministries. To celebrate our 10 years of service, we are conducting a research survey to ascertain the types of fund-raising services that are required by growing churches. We want our research to benefit as many congregations and individuals as possible, so we will make our findings available to consultants, conferences, judicatories, and denominations. If you would like to participate, please Click Here to Take Survey. The survey only takes about 2-3 minutes to complete and is structured to ensure that all responses are confidential. Thank you in advance for assisting us in this important effort.| Wyden Your Horizons by Curing the A-FluA virulent Flu is spreading rapidly around the globe, from continent to continent, nation to nation, to cities and small towns, infecting millions of individuals. The major means of transmission seems to be through the media, although it is also spread through person to person contact. The A-Flu results in numerous life-threatening illnesses and is seemingly unstoppable. If its spread is not halted, the results will be far more catastrophic for the world than the Bird-Flu, or any other previous international epidemic.
The A-Flu refers to "Affluenza," a term coined as the title of a
documentary television program which first aired on PBS in 1997. "It is a painful, contagious socially transmitted condition
of overload of debt, anxiety, and waste resulting from the dogged pursuit of
more." The response to the television program was unexpectedly profound and
long-lasting. Even though the television program and the book drew great responses, almost ten years later we are still mired down in the disease. In some ways it seems that this desire to have more is entrenched in our national and global cultures. We designate nations as undeveloped if their resources have not been fully tapped and their citizens have not succumbed to needing tangible things to buy them happiness. We assess the health of our nation by the magnitude of our Gross National Product, as if the more stuff we produce the more successful we are. Just about fifty years ago, in 1957, the percentage of Americans who described themselves as "very happy" reached its pinnacle. Even though now in terms of GNP we have twice as much stuff as fifty years ago, the percentage of those who feel happy is decreasing. And to attain this ever-larger GNP we are taking on ever increasing levels of debt, both personally and nationally. Every year we are told we "need" the "new and improved products", and many of us succumb to this marketing propaganda and go out and buy the new products and discard the old ones. As a result of our greed for more and more products, we are at the same time destroying the ecology of our planet. We ravage the earth of its minerals and resources to produce more and more products, and at the same time we create megatons of poisonous garbage from discarded used products. In addition to destroying the environment of the planet, the United States leads the world in its ability to destroy other human beings. The USA produces and owns more weapons than all of the other nations of the world combined. In order to keep up with the "need" to purchase the new, improved products, we have to work overtime to purchase them. Then when we get home from work, we have to spend time taking care of our possessions. It now takes two incomes to purchase an average house because the average size of new homes is twice what it was fifty years ago. We expect that our children will make more money and have better things than we have, and are discouraged when it appears that may not be the case. We always expect that "new" and "better" products will make our lives easier. But bigger homes, bigger yards, more complicated cars, and electronic devices require more of our attention. So even though these new products are supposed to save us time, we in fact have far less "free time" than previous generations. Much of our time is spent just keeping track of our stuff. I remember vividly when one of my seminary professors stated that "The more stuff you own, the more the stuff owns you" because you have to pay for it, take care of it, maintain it, etc. Jesus, made this point in this way, "Where your treasure is, there is your heart." A recent survey found that 7 out of 10 American homes are drowning in clutter. Self-storage has, in fact, become a $17 billion annual industry in the USA -- larger than the motion picture industry. So we add on to our homes, or buy second homes, or rent more storage units to make room for all the stuff we have. Ironically, we really need something we end up not being able to find it. So we go out and buy a new one. Our freeways are congested because everyone has to have a car, and our garbage dumps are overflowing to the point that some states pay other states to take their junk. Even our airlines are congested with junk. The last flight I took was delayed over half an hour because those of us on the plane had taken along so much of our stuff that the storage cargo of the plane couldn't hold it all. In addition to our freeways, airplanes, and homes, we are also becoming "stuffed" ourselves. Our national palates have become more discriminating. When we go out to eat, we expect a good restaurant will have a wine list, and food that will be presented with lots of special sauces and condiments. It is not just the fast-food restaurants that are causing us to have an epidemic of obesity. Having more food, doesn't necessarily mean healthier people. And of course, overweight and obesity is leading to epidemic increases in heart disease, diabetes, cancer, etc. It seems we have forgotten the truth of the folk wisdom, "too much of a good thing can make you sick." I could on and on describing the symptoms of Affluenza. If you want to have an exhaustive list, you could buy the book, Affluenza, The All-Consuming Epidemic, just one more thing you need to buy, own, and store! :) But seriously, I do believe that all Americans need to read the book. (If you don't want to own it and store it in your home or office, most libraries have one on their shelves.) Not only have the authors, John de Graaf, David Wann, and Thomas H. Naylor, done a great job of describing all of the symptoms of Affluenza, they also have provided a variety self-diagnostic tools and new behaviors that can help individuals, cities, states, and nations to be cured of Affluenza. I believe there is one cure that they have not mentioned in the book, however, that perhaps has the greatest potential to cure the disease. As with most diseases, if we want to be cured we often have to adopt new behaviors. The new behavior that can enable you to cure yourself of the disease is to practice the art of sacrificial, generous giving, and in doing so you will find the Joy of Generosity. Rather than buying and owning, think in terms of giving and sharing. Generous giving feels good. Studies have shown that when you give generously, going beyond the extra mile to help someone else, you feel different inside, and part of that different feeling is due to the fact that that feeling releases endorphins that are good for your health. Scientific studies have shown that regular givers have lower blood pressure, lower rates of heart disease, less depression, and live longer. In fact, the opposite is probably also true, the more stuff we have the more likely we are to have high blood pressure from trying to keep track of it all. On the other hand, regular generous giving releases the same endorphins that can provide you with the same wonderful feelings that runners experience as that "runners high." I am not suggesting the extravagant giving behavior that is advertised during our national religious holidays -- the exhaustive need to give presents to our relatives, who often do not need any more possessions. I am talking about a daily attitude of thinking before you purchase, considering the consequences of that purchase, and of thinking what you could accomplish if you were to use that money to help someone who really had a need. I have to admit that adopting this kind of daily behavior is not easy. It is a discipline that runs counter to our cultural habits. When I think this way, I realize that there are few new products that I really need to have. So I strive to think before I purchase something, especially if it is especially attractive or enticing, and to try to remember that this paraphrase of Jesus' words, "If you seek first God's realm, everything that you need will be provided for you." I also try to ask myself, "Is this product going to help me keep my life's priorities in order and to help me put first things first?" And when I am asked what I would like for my birthday or Christmas, I suggest a donation to Heifer Project or some other worthy cause. I appreciate and remember these gifts, which enable me to help others, far longer than the tangible gifts I receive, that a year later I may not remember, or which I may have misplaced. As far as how much to give away, Jesus presents a humbling example for all of us. Even though we tithe as a family, giving away 10% of our gross income, we still have a long way to go to be giving truly sacrificially. But I yearn for that simpler life, where I have fewer possessions, more resources to give away to help others, and more time to enjoy being with my friends and loved ones, and a more meaningful life. When I am able to practice the Joy of Generosity daily, I will be truly cured of Affluenza. My hope is that you also will find the Joy of Generosity and consequently have a healthier, happier, more whole, and more holy life. Maybe we can encourage each other in finding a cure for Affluenza. As with changing most behaviors, it is beneficial to having a support system. I would love to hear from readers of this newsletter, who would like to share your struggles with Affluenza and your Joys of Generosity. Top |
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Many churches and non-profit organizations conduct yearly fund-raising
campaigns in the fall of each year to garner support for the following year's
Operating Expenses, programs and ministries. Often these efforts do not come
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